I was watching a video the other day discussing comedian Bill Burr’s comments on Elon Musk that got him banned from Twitter/X.The video, linked below, started as something humorous but turned into a serious discussion on a topic that deeply impacts many of us.
You can check out the video here.
This issue is loneliness in our society. In the video it is discussed as a male loneliness epidemic. The commenter in the video brought up the many different studies that show a link between right-wing ideology and loneliness in all ages and genders, not just in young men. And there are a great deal of these studies that show this link such as this one.
So in reality, loneliness is an issue for everyone in our society. It’s not just men. A recent Surgeon General’s report titled Our Epidemic of Loneliness and Isolation discusses how our communities are fraying and social connections are becoming weaker.
This isn’t just due to modern society. Loneliness is a specific feature of our current economic system. A long-standing critique of capitalism is that it is alienating and causes the “atomization of the individual”. In short, this critique describes exactly what the Surgeon General’s report says is happening right now in the US.
And as the multiple studies referenced above show, this loneliness manifests in our politics as far right ideology. We can’t fight loneliness. We can’t out argue it. We can’t protest it. The only way to counter it is through compassion. By building a new system where loneliness is not a key feature of it.
The world around us is uncaring and selfish. So we need to be empathetic and selfless. The only way to counter all this is to be the counter argument ourselves. That is the only way that we win the game.
Here is a good read on the atomization of the individual: